“And I hope you have a lot of detours in life. A lot of sexy detours, sexy guys. With the dreads and the ears…. As long as you like them, we’ll like them. And let us know if you need a naked review. We’ll make them twirl.” –my Aunts Gail and Becca, with their pitch-perfect humor-acceptance-wisdom combo. On the occasion of the marriage of Gail’s youngest, my cousin Emilie, November 2013.